Monday, 7 December 2015

How Can We Help?

All of us have a role to play in building a strong community in which families and children are safest from abuse.


Raise the issue

Form a support group and elect officials to educate the people about issues in the community and the need for child abuse prevention and treatment programs. Support group such as UNICEF Malaysia would help the people around know better about child abuse.

Besides, we can contact local school district and faith community to encourage them to sponsor classes support programs for new parents. In Malaysia, we can encourage the mosques, churches and other to join in hands and sponsor programs to educate new and young parents based on their religion.


Notice and recognize the warning sign

Some of the sign that shown by a child might be abused are:
  • Nervousness around adults 
  • Aggression towards adults or other children
  • Sudden, dramatic changes in personality or activities
  • Inability to stay awake or to concentrate 
  • Acting out sexually or showing interest in sex that is not appropriate for the child’s age
  • Frequent unexplained bruises or injury
  • Low self esteem 
If you happened to see such symptom in a child, you should do something about it by noticing the child’s surrounding and the people around her. You won’t we might save a child’s life.



Report suspected abuse

If you suspected abuse is occurring, report it. Most of the people keep quiet and close an eye upon this matter. You should keep reporting it until something is done. Contact Childline Malaysia (15999) or call the local police department as fast as you can.


Build a support network by getting involved in your neighbourhood 

Develop friendly relationship with your neighbours and their children. Problems often seems less overwhelming when you have support nearby. Besides that, get involved in child’s school and join the parent-teacher organization and attend school events will help the child to feel more secured.

Talk to your friends and neighbours about child abuse and how to prevent it.








Organizations in Malaysia

GOVERNMENT ORGANIZATIONS

Jabatan Kebajikan Masyarakat Malaysia

Child Protection Team (CCPC)
was established at the state and district to serve as a support system for child protection services. Children's Activity Centre was organized by CCPC to prevent child abuse and neglect.

The team provide not only shelter for the children, but also provide short courses, reading materials, sports centre, learning centre and counselling sessions for them.

How to report cases of child abuse:
  • Telephone line: 1-800-88-3040
  • Report to the Social Welfare Office near the residence reporting
  • Report to any police station / Police Guardhouse nearby
  • Any member of the Child Protection Team / Center for Childhood Activities available in the event of persecution
  • Referring directly to the nearest hospital
URL: http://www.jkm.gov.my/
Lembaga Penduduk dan Pembangunan Keluarga Negara-LPPKN (The National Population and Family Development Board Malaysia)

Address: Bangunan LPPKN, 12B, Jalan Raja Laut, P. O. Box 10416, 50712 Kuala Lumpur.

Telephone: 603-2693 7555

Fax: 603-2693 7250

E-mail: penduduk@lppkn.gov.my

URL: www.lppkn.gov.my



NON GOVERNMENT ORGANIZATIONS (NGO)

UNICEF Malaysia

UNICEF has been working with the Government of Malaysia since 1954. UNICEF's work in Malaysia has since evolved with the nation’s development and progress into an upper-middle income country. In addition to helping provide children the best start in life through quality health and education as well as protection from violence, exploitation and abuse.

Report any abuse that has taken place by:
  • calling Childline Malaysia: 15999
  • contacting the Department of Social Welfare directly
  • lodging a report with the police 
The following information must be provided when report:
  • address or location where the child is being abused or neglected 
  • type of abuse or facts of the case 
  • identity of the abuser or any information related to the abuser
P.S The Children Association of Selangor & Kuala Lumpur

P.S. The Children's vision is to build safer communities where children are protected from sexual abuse and exploitation. P.S. The Children aims to achieve this by advocating and establishing effective prevention education for both adults and children, strengthening treatment and support services, while forging synergistic partnerships within communities.

Their yearly plan focuses on core activities and programs derived from the following 5 Fundamental Goals.
  • To promote safe environments for children to live and develop.
  • To equip every child with personal safety skills.
  • To create effective support network mechanisms for children and adults.
  • To provide counselling and therapeutic services.
  • To advocate for policies.
How to contact:

Address: Protect And Save The Children Association of Selangor and Kuala Lumpur (Reg. No. 7), No. 5, Jalan 7/14, Section 7, 46050, Petaling Jaya, Selangor, Malaysia.

Telephone: 603 7957 4344 / 7956 4355

Fax: 603 7957 4322

E-mail: protect@psthechildren.org.my

URL: http://www.psthechildren.org.my/



Women’s Centre For Change, Penang (WCC)

WCC is a non-profit organisation set up to eliminate violence against women and promote gender equality. WCC provides counselling, legal advice, and shelter for women in crisis. WCC also conducts talks for children and the public on violence against women and women’s rights. WCC has developed resource materials on child sexual abuse prevention and gender violence for children and teenagers.

Address: 241, Jalan Burma, 10350, Pulau Pinang, Malaysia

Phone: 604 228 0342

Fax: 604 2285784

E-mail: wcc@wccpenang.org



Malaysian Association For The Protection Of Children (MAPC)

To advocate for child rights and raise awareness on child abuse and neglect; to protect children from abuse and neglect; to support abused children through the legal system to prevent further trauma.

Address: C/O MPA 3rd floor (annex block) National Cancer Society Building No. 66, Jalan Raja Muda Abdul Aziz, 50300 Kuala Lumpur.

E-mail: mapcorg@po.jaring.my

Telephone: 603 26942362

Fax: 603 26914773

Roles of Different Parties

School Personnel
The education staffs have ongoing daily contact with children and have professional knowledge and expertise in child development. Usually, teachers are the first to notice indicators of child abuse due to notable changes in the behavior or physical appearance of their students. Therefore, the school staffs must familiar with the procedures to help the child.  
  • Reporting
It is compulsory for all school personnel to report every case where they believe that a child has been, or there is substantial risk that he or she will be abused or neglected by a parent or guardian and the child is in need of intervention services. To report the case, they must provide information of the child such as name, age, address, situations and others concerns.
  •  Investigating
The responsibility for investigating the case of child abuse rests with the authorities or the police. The police and authorities are to co-ordinate their investigations to avoid subjecting the child to repeated interviews. While school board personnel should co-operate with these agencies, they must first and leading act in the best educational interests of students.
  • Suspected Abuse by other Students
When there is any allegation or suspicion involves another student or peer as the alleged offender, the school must take the disciplinary action, including suspension or expulsion. School procedures should include guidelines for police referrals for criminal offences or Child Intervention Services for protective services if needed.
  • Suspected Abuse Involving School Personnel
School boards and school personnel must recognize that child abuse can occur within the educational setting. If a school administrator, teacher, volunteer or non-certified personnel be suspected as the wrongdoer of abuse, the school board must take immediate action consistent with the nature of the allegation, facts and circumstances.



Caseworker
Caseworkers determine whether a child is in need of intervention services which includes protective services.
  • Receiving a Report and Following the Investigation
When a caseworker receives an allegation of child abuse, the worker must assess the child’s need for intervention and form an opinion as to whether the child’s need is consistent with the provision of family enhancement services or requires investigation for protection services. In every case, allegations of child abuse must be reported directly to a delegated caseworker. If someone other than a caseworker receives information on child abused, that person should advise the informant that they have a legal duty to report the matter to a delegated caseworker.
  •  Assessing Risk and Protecting the Child
If the child might be in immediate danger, the investigation begins right away. Otherwise it should begin within three days. The purpose of the investigation is to determine whether the child needs protective services. If so, the worker must take steps to protect the child.
  • Persons with Disabilities
When dealing with children with disabilities, persons involved in conducting child intervention investigations should try to involve professionals with expertise in specific disabilities.
  • Obtaining Access to the Child
If a caseworker believes a child needs protective services but has been denied access to the child, the caseworker may apply to the court for an order to search for and help the child. This order authorizes the caseworker to enter a premise with or without permission to help the child. If possible, the caseworker should obtain police assistance when entering a premise. Under these circumstances, a police officer may also apprehend the child and also the abuser.



Health Professionals
  •  Reporting Responsibilities and Procedures
Any disclosure made by a child to health professionals must be recorded in the child's own words. Health professionals, while continuing to support, should not interview the child about the abuse after receiving the child's disclosure. They might be required to give evidence or produce their records under oath in court. Therefore, they should make a written summary of any information they give to a caseworker for future reference.
  • Practices in Supporting a Coordinated Response
Staff in various health authorities and facilities might identify children who have been abused. A child might exhibit an injury, trauma or other signs of abuse. It is sometimes easy to associate these signs with causes other than abuse. This is particularly true when there is no link made between the child's current injury or trauma and previous visits to the facility. Families might use different hospital emergency departments. Health professionals and personnel in multi-hospital communities should explore ways to share information about cases where a child is the subject.



Physician
The physician's role is not to conduct a legal interview or obtain details of the abuse from the child but rather to:
  • take a pertinent medical history
  • ensure the physical and emotional well-being of the patient
  • treat or prevent illness or injury
  • accurately record spontaneous disclosure/volunteered information
  • obtain and document physical findings consistent with abuse or suspicions of abuse
  • inform the child and caregivers about the medical outcome of the examination
  • Assist Child Intervention and law enforcement agencies in their investigations



Police
Police play a variety of roles in the identification of and response to child abuse and neglect.
·         identify situations in which maltreatment may be occurring
  • Reporting Responsibilities and ProceduresMeeting with the Caseworker
  • Seeing the Child
  • Medical Examination of the Child
  • Interview with any Non-offending Parent or Guardian
  • Interviewing other Witnesses
  • Gathering and Preserving Evidence
  • Laying a Charge
  • Reporting




Government
Child protection is a priority for the Government of Malaysia. The government enacted the Child Act 2001 [Act 611] to fulfill its obligation under the Convention on the Rights of the Child (CRC). The Malaysia Child Act 2001, a merging of three previous laws on issues relating to child protection and juvenile justice, namely the Juvenile Courts Act 1947, Women and Young Girls Protection Act 1973 and Child Protection Act 1991, is part of the protective legal environment for children.

Act 611 requires the setting up of Child Protection Teams and Child Activity Centre at both state and district levels. Aimed at mobilizing community participation in the implementation of preventive and rehabilitative programs, these initiatives are targeted for children at risk or children vulnerable to all forms of abuse and exploitation. In terms of administration of juvenile justice, Act 611 provides for a procedure before the Court for Children which is child-friendly taking into account the mental and emotional maturity of a child.

In the Child Act 2001, the punishment for child abuse and neglect has been increased to a fine not exceeding RM 20,000.00 or 10 years imprisonment or both. This is a double jump from the maximum punishment provided under the Child Protection Act 1991. At the same time, since there are instances where the incident of child abuse and neglect that occurred might be within the knowledge of certain groups, the mandatory duty to report has been extended to family members and child care providers. Under the Child Protection Act 1991, the punishment was only a fine not exceeding RM 1,000.00, whereas the Child Act 2001 has increased the fine to not exceeding RM 5,000.00 or imprisonment not exceeding 2 years or both. This reflected the government’s seriousness to get the involvement of various group to assist in preventing the problem. Furthermore, the Act recognizes that a family is an important component in a child’s development. Therefore, if a child is placed in a place of safety or in an educational institution, the parent or guardian can be compelled by the court to visit their children.


Credits to: https://www.solgps.alberta.ca/safe_communities/community_awareness/family_violence/Publications/Responding%20to%20child%20abuse%20handbook.pdf

Sunday, 6 December 2015

Signs and Effects of Child Abuse and Neglect

Signs of Child Abuse and Neglect
By learning some of the common warning signs of child abuse and neglect, you can catch the problem as early as possible and get both the child and the abuser the help that they need. Of course, just because you see a warning sign doesn’t automatically mean a child is being abused. It’s important to dig deeper, looking for a pattern of abusive behavior and warning signs, if you notice something off. Children who have experienced child abuse may demonstrate any of the following signs:

Warning signs of emotional abuse in children
  • Excessively withdrawn, fearful, or anxious about doing something wrong.
  • Shows extremes in behavior (extremely compliant or extremely demanding; extremely passive or extremely aggressive).
  • Doesn’t seem to be attached to the parent or caregiver.
  • Acts either inappropriately adult (taking care of other children) or inappropriately infantile (rocking, thumb-sucking, throwing tantrums).

Warning signs of neglect in children
  • Clothes are ill-fitting, filthy, or inappropriate for the weather.
  • Hygiene is consistently bad (unbathed, matted and unwashed hair, noticeable body odor).
  • Untreated illnesses and physical injuries.
  • Is frequently unsupervised or left alone or allowed to play in unsafe situations and environments.
  • Is frequently late or missing from school.

Warning signs of physical abuse in children
  • Frequent injuries or unexplained bruises, welts, or cuts.
  • Is always watchful and “on alert,” as if waiting for something bad to happen.
  • Injuries appear to have a pattern such as marks from a hand or belt.
  • Shies away from touch, flinches at sudden movements, or seems afraid to go home.
  • Wears inappropriate clothing to cover up injuries, such as long-sleeved shirts on hot days.


Warning signs of sexual abuse in children
  • Trouble walking or sitting.
  • Displays knowledge or interest in sexual acts inappropriate to his or her age, or even seductive behavior.
  • Makes strong efforts to avoid a specific person, without an obvious reason.
  • Doesn’t want to change clothes in front of others or participate in physical activities.
  • An STD (sexually transmitted diseases) or pregnancy, especially under the age of 14.
  • Runs away from home.

Credits to: http://www.helpguide.org/articles/abuse/child-abuse-and-neglect.htm




Effects of child abuse and neglect


All types of child abuse and neglect leave lasting scars. Some of these scars might be physical, but emotional scarring has long lasting effects throughout life, damaging a child’s sense of self, ability to have healthy relationships, and ability to function at home, at work and at school. Some effects include:

  • Lack of trust and relationship difficulties. 
If you can’t trust your parents, who can you trust? Abuse by a primary caregiver damages the most fundamental relationship as a child—that you will safely, reliably get your physical and emotional needs met by the person who is responsible for your care. Without this base, it is very difficult to learn to trust people or know who is trustworthy. This can lead to difficulty maintaining relationships due to fear of being controlled or abused. It can also lead to unhealthy relationships because the adult doesn’t know what a good relationship is.

  • Core feelings of being “worthless” or “damaged.” 
If you’ve been told over and over again as a child that you are stupid or no good, it is very difficult to overcome these core feelings. You may experience them as reality. Adults may not strive for more education, or settle for a job that may not pay enough, because they don’t believe they can do it or are worth more. Sexual abuse survivors, with the stigma and shame surrounding the abuse, often especially struggle with a feeling of being damaged

  • Trouble regulating emotions. 
Abused children cannot express emotions safely. As a result, the emotions get stuffed down, coming out in unexpected ways. Adult survivors of child abuse can struggle with unexplained anxiety, depression, or anger. They may turn to alcohol or drugs to numb out the painful feelings.



Credits to: http://www.helpguide.org/articles/abuse/child-abuse-and-neglect.htm

Types of Abuse

There are several types of child abuse which are
  • Emotional child abuse 
  • Child neglect 
  • Physical child abuse 
  • Child sexual abuse 


Emotional child abuse



Emotional abuse is the ongoing emotional maltreatment or emotional neglect of a child. Sometimes it's called psychological abuse and can seriously damage a child’s emotional health and development. Examples of emotional child abuse include:

  • Constant, shaming, yelling, bullying and a child.
  • Calling names and making negative comparisons to others.
  • Telling a child he or she is “no good," "worthless," "bad," or "a mistake."
  • Ignoring or rejecting a child as punishment.
  • Limited physical contact with the child—no hugs, kisses, or other signs of affection.



Child neglect




Child neglect is a very common type of child abuse. It involves the persistent failure to meet a child's basic physical and/or psychological needs, likely to result in the serious impairment of the child's health, physical, emotional or mental development. If a parent or caregiver fails to prevent harm to a child or their failure to act exposes the child to imminent harm that is neglect too .These are examples of child neglect:

  • Rejecting the child and not giving the child any love
  • Not feeding the child
  • Not dressing the child in proper clothing
  • Not giving needed medical or dental care
  • Leaving a child alone for a long time (abandonment)



Physical child abuse



Physical abuse involves physical harm or injury to the child by an adult or caregiver. The injury from physical child abuse may be the result of:

  • Beating, slapping, or hitting.
  • Pushing, shaking, kicking, or throwing.
  • Pinching, biting, choking, or hair-pulling.
  • Burning with cigarettes, scalding water, or other hot objects.
  • Severe physical punishment.



Child sexual abuse



Child sexual abuse is an especially complicated form of abuse because of its layers of guilt and shame. Sexual abuse usually occurs at the hands of someone the child knows and should be able to trust—most often close relatives. In addition, boys and girls both suffer from sexual abuse. Sexual abuse of a child is any sexual act between an adult and a child including:

  • Penetration
  • Intercourse
  • Incest
  • Rape

Credits to: http://www.healthyplace.com/abuse/child-abuse-information/types-child-abuse/



Tuesday, 1 December 2015

Introduction

What is child abuse?

Child abuse is the physical, sexual or emotional maltreatment or neglect of a child or children. It is also define child maltreatment as any act by a parent or other caregiver that results in harm, potential for harm, or threat of harm to a child. Child abuse can occur at anywhere and anytime.

According to the Journal of Child Abuse and Neglect, child abuse is "any recent act or failure to act on the part of a parent or caretaker which results in death, serious physical or emotional harm, sexual abuse or exploitation, an act or failure to act which presents an imminent risk of serious harm".



Why does child abuse happen?
Harm, or the risk of harm to children and young people, can occur when stress, tiredness, lack of skills, information and support combine to make the pressures of caring for children overwhelming.


There are some factors that can contribute to the likelihood of harm:
  • isolation and lack of support - when there is no one, such as extended family, friends, a partner or community support to help with the demands of parenting 
  • stress - financial pressures, job worries, medical problems or taking care of a family member with a disability can increase stress and overwhelm parents 
  • unrealistic expectations - a lack of understanding of a child or young person's developmental stages and behaviour 
  • lack of parenting skills - not knowing how to help children and young people learn, grow and behave in a positive way 
  • drug and alcohol problems - addiction or substance abuse may limit a parent's ability to meet their children's needs 
  • low self esteem and self confidence - sometimes insecure parents doubt their ability to meet their child's needs and do not seek help and support 
  • poor childhood experiences - inter-generational patterns of abuse. 

The presence of one or more of these factors does not by itself prove that a child is being harmed or is at risk of harm, but it can alert you to the possibility that a child may be at risk. Given the right skills and resources, most people who have harmed a child can learn to parent in a positive way.

Community attitudes are also a contributing factor to child abuse. There is still some acceptance in the community for the use of physical force for the purposes of discipline and punishment of children and young people. People may not consider it any of their business, may not want to get involved or do not trust child protection authorities, and therefore do not report their concerns.


Credits to: https://www.communities.qld.gov.au/childsafety/protecting-children/what-is-child-abuse/why-does-child-abuse-happen